Well I'm sure all of you (all five of you at least) are curious to hear how things are going over here. All in all...not too bad, I suppose. But to understand how I'm feeling about things at this point, it would probably be good to hear a little bit about the journey over.
It all started 11 days ago in a basement in Wyoming... (cue wipe to flashback)
I woke up that morning in a haze. A rare bout of insomnia had allowed me only sporadic sleep - possibly due to the excitement of realizing it was my last night at home, possibly because of the two pounds of hot wings I ate for dinner the night before. Suffice to say I wasn't feeling my best.
Of course this general malaise was compounded by the fact that I wasn't done packing yet, as well as the impending separation of me from my beloved dog. Now throughout our time together, Skua and I have been apart many times: she stayed at home during my freshman year at Cornell, for one of the two summers I spent in Minnesota (the bad one), and during each of my adventures working for the San Diego Zoo this spring. While our separations have been fairly frequent, it's never been for more than four months at a time. That morning I would be leaving her for an entire year. I'd love to say that she is as sad about this as I am, but, being a good animal scientist, I know that she's already settled into a new routine and is doing just fine without me. I, on the other hand, am still having a tough time with it.
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| How Could You Not Have a Hard Time Leaving This? |
Despite the sadness, I managed to drop her off at the kennel, pack up my car and head East to Aurora, Nebraska where my sister Sarah was scheduled to get married. The trip was uneventful, as difficult as that might be to believe for those of you who have experienced driving in Nebraska. It was so uneventful, that I think I'm just going to skip writing about it.
The wedding weekend, in stark contrast to the drive out, was a good bit of fun. I had several responsibilities to attend to, including alcohol procurement, wedding photography and a little pickin' and singin'. Somehow I managed to take care of all of these and other chores, though admittedly some went better than others. The weekend started with a "get to know you" dinner with a good portion of Brian's (the groom's) family who all seemed to be very kind. It was an early night though, as the next day was set to be packed with wedding preparations. In the interest of brevity, I'll skip the tedious details of finding a liquor store and tying paper hearts to mason jars. After a quick rehearsal of the service it was time for the groom's dinner, a barbecue at the Hampton auditorium for all the guests who had made it to town by then. It was a relatively quiet affair, but I'm sure a good time was had by all.
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| Brian's Dad Mans the Grill |
Of course Sunday was the big day, what with there being a wedding and all. Everyone managed to make it through a nerve-filled morning without any tragedy, although the planned schedule was not exactly followed. Timing issues meant that the service would be held in the early afternoon, which was fine, but it made for some tough lighting conditions for the photographer. I haven't had the chance to go through all the wedding photos yet, but I'm sure I'll be able to pull some workable ones out of the bunch. I did manage to fill up almost 8 gigs of memory card, so there better be something in there. The service itself went off without a hitch - Chris' reading went well, Monica's song was fantastic, and of course the bride looked beautiful. She even managed to hold back the tears during her vows (although I can't say the same for my father). After the service the newly-weds got hugs, kisses and congratulations from all the guests, got the marriage license signed, and Sarah took her bouquet down to the cemetery to lay them down next to my mother's headstone.
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| The Newly Weds Leave the Church |
I got the honor of driving the new couple around and taking some more photos while people set up at the reception. Yes, we did get some shots of them in a corn field (which triggered a fist-pump congratulations from a passing farmer) among some other shots in less rural spots along the drive.
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Requisite Corn Field Shot
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Then it was on to the Prairie Loft barn to get the reception to get the real party started.
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| Arrival at the Reception |
Drinks were served, toasts were made, and the party got underway, but not before the guests were exposed to three minutes of banjo-based torture courtesy of yours truly. In keeping with tradition, I sang my big sister an Avett Brother's song (
The Greatest Sum), which went...alright. I was, admittedly, a bit nervous having never played banjo in front of more than two people. When I perform in front of crowds I tend to spend a majority of time out of my own body and this time was no different. Everyone was very generous with their praise after I had finished, but I wasn't completely satisfied with how it went. I did manage to make my sister cry though, so either it was really awful or I managed to show her how much I (and the rest of the people in that barn) really love her. I'm really hoping it was the latter. From that point on the night is a bit of a blur. Drinks were had, dancing was done (mostly by Jorgensens making fools out of themselves) and a good time was had by all. Several people seemed to think that I needed to hear how great my younger brother's girlfriend was. The venue was beautiful, the music was good; all in all it was a pretty perfect evening.
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| Good Times Were Had |
A group of ladies from Denver seemed to think my ego needed a little more recovery towards the end of the night and convinced me to sing my song again out on the lawn. It was a little weird until I noticed that my sister was out there listening too. It just helped me realize that in my head that song will always be for her.
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Private Concert
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My only tasks for the following week were to help my pregnant sister Lindsay move some furniture, to buy some socks, and hang out in St. Paul, MN. There wasn't a whole lot going on while I was there, which was good, but the week flew by anyway. I even managed to see some old friends from the Minnesota Zoo and a very old friend who has grown up with me since we met before kindergarten. I also, somehow, managed to go out one night with one of the prettiest girls I have ever seen. I'm not sure how I convinced her that it would be a good idea, but we both seemed to have a decent time. The timing couldn't have been worse, but I suppose that's no surprise.
I flew out from the Twin Cities on Saturday morning and the entire trip over went pretty smoothly. I'm still getting situated in my apartment, but it seems like my flat-mates are all pretty cool. We are living right in the middle of the city so there will be plenty of distractions testing my will power, but I'm pretty optimistic about how this year is starting out. I'll try to get out and get some pictures of my neighborhood (you will have a hard time believing that I actually live in this area) and post again soon.
Congratulations again to Sarah and Brian on gettin' hitched.
Hope all of you are doing well wherever you might be!